Okay, I don’t want to rain on your parade (even if it’s a pride parade), but I just wanted to share a little pet peeve of mine.
As many of you might know, this month is Pride Month. I’m not sure if that’s an official designation or not, because while President Obama made proclamations each June during his presidency, of course nothing has happened since. But we persist, because well, we deserve a month at the very least.
During Pride Month each year, approximately one gazillion companies change their Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter logos with some sort of rainbow filter. I have to admit, the rainbow onslaught is pretty comforting even if it’s temporary.
And a lot of those companies take the time this month to dedicate a portion of profits from select items to many LGBTQ charities and non-profit organizations. Of course, this is very welcome. It’s important to support the community, and during this month when rainbows fill our worlds, when visibility is so strong, it makes sense that this is when donations should and could peak.
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But companies that only promote LGBTQ-inclusiveness, or pride, during this one month are simply not doing enough. And nothing is more symbolic of this one-time act of superficial than the rainbow bagel.
(Hey, listen to me a bit longer, okay?)
Everyone loves a bit of color, but this month the streets of NYC have been lined with rainbow bagels. I’ve seen them in the windows of at least a hundred different bagel shops. There are also rainbow cookies, cakes, rolls, and other baked deserts. They’re all beautiful. Honestly.
But what do they do? Besides the artificial food coloring affecting our bodies in whatever ways, a lot of these rainbow bagels simply serve as a fashion statement. Don’t get me wrong: “fashion” can and does have a positive affect on a lot of the world, but here’s what gets me with the rainbow bagels.
- They cost more than a regular bagel, but are literally the exact same bagel—just with added artificial food coloring.
- That extra cost you’re paying? It’s unlikely that it’s going to any sort of advocacy group unless that’s what the company is promoting.
- Too many people feel that simply buying something with rainbows on it is a sign of their support of the LGBTQ community. But honestly: there’s a lot more that could be done.
So here’s what I propose: instead of buying a rainbow bagel (or cookie, or cake) this Pride Month and uploading it to Instagram, use your resourced to instead donate to a worthy cause.
Hi I just spent an extra 85 cents to buy this #rainbowbagel with the hope that you would click like. Now I'm stuck eating the artificial coloring which will do who knows what to my body…..and I'm stuck knowing that my gay money went to some corporation rather than an organization or non-profit but it's #PrideMonth and it's honestly unfortunately all about showing pride with a bunch of flashy rainbows. If you do want to do something meaningful for pride, don't buy a rainbow bagel – donate your money to help immigrant families at the border. ⬇️ https://secure.actblue.com/donate/families-border ?️? This is the end of my story. I hope you enjoyed my rainbow bagel Instagram. Happy Pride!
I’ve donated to two organizations this week that are working to help immigrant families at the border. If you want to show some pride this Pride Month, I’d suggest skipping the silly rainbow promotions that aren’t already donating to a worthy cause, and to instead put your money where it will make an impact. Donate through ActBlue here to help families at the border.
(Okay, listen: the irony is not lost on me that I did still buy a rainbow bagel with the hopes of getting your attention. And if you really do want one, go for it! But remember pride is more than flashy rainbows and symbolic gestures. It’s the chance to actually make a statement and have a positive, visible effect on the world at large.)